There is absolutely nothing you will do that people won't find fault in. It's true we all don't have same heart but be conscious of how you treat others regardless of their gender or age. Nowadays people just judge everybody based on what they see in other people forgeting the fact that we are women doesn't mean we are all the same. We don't have same personalities, so when you generalise it all look down on someone because of what other women or ladies do is very bad. You take people for granted for no reason and make them feel cheap like anyone can have them simply because they talk to people you don't want or need them talking to.
Why do you feel it's not right for me talking to some people; I really feel there's a reason to that but it's better when you are sincere and tell whatever thing you are afraid that that person will expose.
Nothing is hidden under the sun and also remember that this world we live in is a small circle.